Monday, May 11, 2009

had a chat with one of my laopengyous today.
relationship/love was the topic and somehow i see some light or rather sometimes, it is only after you lost the relationship or when you take time to view the whole picture, the whole situation.

guys and girls are indeed very different.
it's a matter of how we learn to adapt to each other.
yesterday, i was placed in the perspective of guys, i found myself being in guys' shoes.
as i mentioned, i went to watch my bro's soccer match yesterday.
along the way, we picked up one of his friends.
this friend had just quarrelled with his girlfriend as she was unhappy that he was going to play soccer and he was just complaining to my bro.
at that moment, i realised how it is when you are on the guys' side.
and being a girl, i saw myself being on the pivot of a see-saw.
all of a sudden, i seemed to be able to balance both perspectives.

i was just thinking at that time,
if im in such a situation again, i would have handled it a different way.
but looking back and sigh/regret is not going to do any help.
i shall learn to look ahead and not repeat this. ((: